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If you are stressed out and have no time, you might want to learn “Seeing” instead of continuing in a pattern of ‘Downloading’. Here is how it works… Does this sound familiar to you? In many of my consultations and coaching sessions, I hear people say this exact thing. Some claim that they don’t have any time to change or add any more tasks to their already overflowing list. Others say they are so stressed out as it is that they don’t see how they can afford to pause without running the risk to miss a step, make a big mistake, or a project running into trouble.
Let me help you break the shackles of low esteem and bring forward the winner in you. We all strive for the best and feel unhappy when things do not go as we expected. My motto in life is different than many others; I believe that success though important is not the sole criteria to judge a person’s abilities. Failures bring the best out of us and allow us to stand tall in the turmoil of devastating failures. You must have heard of the famous saying, “Failures are the stepping stones to success”. Since no one is born perfect, we need to be perfect in our actions at all times and it just does not matter if we fail at times while giving an attempt. A perfect individual is one who can tolerate the failures of his life to go strong.
The Aura I.F. did not like to be thought of as a master but as an elder brother of the Race. He did not flit around to malls, movies, parties, ball games etc. He lived quietly by the Atlantic Ocean. When he sat on his porch he had all the natural elements Air, Water, Fire and Earth at his disposal to use with his meditations and magic. Except when I took him out for breakfast at his favorite Greek Diner, he spent all his time studying by himself.
If you’re a firm believer of the Law of Attraction, and you feel your friends of family could benefit from this wisdom, should you tell them? My own personal opinion is that you should follow your gut instinct on this. In some cases telling your friends or family could lead to ridicule towards you, which in turn could lower your vibration and so it wouldn’t be such a good idea. On the other hand, it could be the thing that your friends or family have been looking for but just didn’t truly know what they were seeking.
One of the most frequently asked questions I get here at the DCT is “how do you come up with the ideas for your tips?” The truth is, many days, they write themselves - whatever I’ve been thinking about or working on blends with whatever has been going on in my life or the lives of my clients, and a tip emerges fully-formed from the womb of my mind. Other days, I scan my bookshelves awaiting inspiration, and in time a book title will trigger a memory which leads to an idea which ultimately becomes a tip.
Don’t you just love the word “tranquil.” Certain words seem to resonate with a feeling of pure contentment. Other words that come to mind are serene, calm, silence, reflective, and peaceful. It makes sense that when we think and say these words that the tranquil feeling will become a part of who we are. Try this:
I’ve got some white powder… What comes to mind when you read that? I found it very perplexing one day as my family was traveling in the mountains with another family on vacation. We were at the RV dump preparing to hit the road for the 6-hour journey home, when I realized that I was fresh out of baby formula. My girlfriend’s youngest was also a baby, and so she had just what I needed.
I Stood On Top Of The World……. and could command only myself. True ? Yes. If you checked the spot on one of the globes found in the school library, or a teachers desk, you would see that it was “On Top Of The World” for about a third of the day. I was in the Air Force, and I had three stripes. I could lead……but I could not command. I could teach……but I could not order. I could persuade…….but I could not dictate.
Affirmations for success can be extremely effective once you follow these several tips I be mentioning. While its extremely important to work hard and smart to achieve success, the inner game mastery of success is as important as well. Too often, people are so engrossed in this outer game of success that they failed to realize that their inner game is sabotaging any possible massive success they should have achieved. Unconsciously self-sabotaging your success is the number one success killer.
The difference between a life of success and a life of significance is, well… significant. When we define a person’s success, we’re usually talking about things they’ve achieved, possessions they’ve obtained, or something they’ve become. Success is often calculated by tallying those gains which a person didn’t have in the first place. In contrast, a life of significance requires nothing external. We can be significant with or without material landmarks. A life of significance is far more concerned with what we give to others, than what we gather for ourselves. |